Just keep them away from Folsom and Dore street fairs, which are definitely for adults only. But I also wouldn’t worry too much about the parade itself traumatizing the eyes and minds of your young ones, unless they’re not into glitter, drag queens and feathers. If that’s not your bag, that’s OK! Don’t go.
If police, straight people and children all want to attend, great! I am supportive of that, but then I’m equally if not more supportive of kink and sex also being at Pride festivals. Just my take: You can’t throw a party or protest built on inclusion, then exclude people from them.
Now everyone wants to go, and in some ways, we’re eating our words by touting this as an inclusive event for so many years, but that’s what it’s meant to be. Eventually the demonstrations worked, more people joined the party, and now many events, venues and festivals that were once LGBTQ-exclusive are now big melting pots. I’ll admit it’s a bit before my time as a millennial, but I’d wager the protest continued through the 1990s as the AIDS crisis raged on, when stigma still reigned that being LGBTQ was an illness or subversive choice we made. In 1970, the first parades began as marches in New York, Los Angeles and San Francisco, so beginning a long history of Pride as a protest. The most recent was last year’s “the first Pride was a riot,” linking the national Black Lives Matter riots to the 1969 ones that took place at the Stonewall Inn in Manhattan.
Everyone has their own take on what Pride should be. I’ve watched Pride go through an identity crisis for as long as I’ve participated: “It’s too straight,” “police shouldn’t be there,” “corporations shouldn’t be there” and “there’s too much sex” are all criticisms I’ve heard. But I’d wager to guess this isn’t what critics mean when they say “no kink at Pride” and “think of the children.” I can’t help but recall actress Rose McGowan’s infamous tweet in 2014 to the ire of the LGBTQ community: “I see now people who have basically fought for the right to stand on top of a float wearing an orange speedo and take molly.” And that’s really what the latest squabble is all about: It’s that many attendees are expressing themselves and enjoying the event in ways that others don’t want to indulge. Watching the festivities from the sidelines along Market Street means you’ll most likely glimpse shirtless men in feather boas, drag queens and an army of corporate contingents from Google to Wells Fargo, along with droves of law firms and other companies showing solidarity to their LGBTQ employees.Īnd yes: there are also leather daddies, porn actors and other scantily-clad attendees. In fact, in more than seven parades I’ve been part of in San Francisco, I’ve not once witnessed nudity, let alone some supposed raucous sex act that would scar the eyes of children. Everyone should be able to attend,” one Tweet read.Įveryone can attend. “Pride should be a cool, queer-friendly block party you can attend to meet with organizers and get cute shirts. Apparently, many onlookers believe that the LGBTQ community and gay men in particular have run amok with orgies in the streets and on big glittery parade floats.
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